From the second I was born I was already one of the luckiest people in the world since I was born to a mother who was motivated. She worked nights when I was little, teaching English so my brothers and I could have the well-rounded and more expensive education she dreamed for us. Throughout my life I've witnessed her grow and evolve, only recently realizing how astronomical some of her career changes were: from teaching college English, to high school English, to every subject and level, aside from foreign language, in grade school... and then back to school herself for a second master's degree, winding up her career as an associate professor in Chicago.My Mom retired from work this Friday. Congratulations Mom! From living with you for most of my life I know this retirement is, in effect, a graduation. I know you will continue to surprise and inspire me and those close to you with your one-track motivation: your career moves, your deciding to learn yoga, headstands, crow-pose and all. Perfecting bread recipes until a better baguette couldn't be found even in France.... Backpacking the Alps, Argentina, Ireland, Chile and god knows how many other places with Dad. Creating web pages, wikis, and other things I can't describe since I don't understand how they work or how you created them. And always unconditionally and patiently listening, imparting your wisdom whenever it's needed. Willing to sit through hours of implausible worry-stricken scenarios, whatever the topic or urgency, and having meaningful, smart advice that works.
People say you outgrow your parents. To this day I can say that I don't think it's possible. I don't know how you've managed to give so much to those around you and still remain spectacular in your own right. You are surely my role model, guardian angel, unfailing force... How freaking lucky I am and we are to have you among us. I can't begin to imagine the lives you've touched throughout your career in your 40+ years of teaching.
Thank you, thank you, thank you and congratulations Mom!
Congratulations, Mrs Bonnie Chauncey on your retirement - may you enjoy your new found freedom to continue to explore this wonderful life...
ReplyDeleteAlthough I don't know you, after having read Emily's lovely note to you, I have a stronger sense of the profound influence you've had on her. Emily has a great warmness about her that she manages to ascribe to you in this note....ah, like mother like daughter as is said...My interactions with Emily have been brief and not often but I've always been struck by her quiet determination which by the sounds of things has rubbed off from her mom...
Carol Lorac
Wow, what a nice comment Carol! Thank you!
ReplyDeleteHappy retirement Aunt Bonnie! Much love from the south - Lizzy, Mike and the boys.
ReplyDeleteEmily, this is a really nice text, with genuine feelings! Your Mom seems really cool.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations for your retirement Mrs Chauncey.
Emily's classmate.
Thank you Que Minh! I really enjoy reading your blog too. Can't wait to see your pics and posts on your trip to Hong Kong. We're gonna miss you in TPE this weekend!
ReplyDeleteMy new goal now is to inspire my children the way Aunt Bonnie did for you. I'm sure she read the blog and was A)Impressed with your beautiful writing style B)Shed a tear for the love her daughter has for her and C) Modestly brushed off half of it as no big deal...but, Aunt Bonnie IS a big deal to all who love her.
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